What Is Love Anyway?
October 13th, 2008How does one know when they are really, truely in love? I’ve heard the term, and also used the term “I thought I loved him.” or “I think I love him.” But does that mean that you actually do love? Or is it just that maybe you do or maybe you don’t? The way I see it is that you can’t actually think that you love someone, because if you think you do then you must at that moment feel that you love that person. If you think maybe you love them, then obviously you don’t. There is no maybes, not when it comes to love. Love shouldn’t need a second thought. You shouldn’t have to ask yourself if you love someone, you either do or you don’t. There is no in-betweens with love. Is it possible to love someone more than someone else? I think so, but I don’t know as to what level that more could be. It’s also possible in my opinion to love more than one person at the same time, however I think that’s cheating yourself and the someones that you love out of real happiness and eventually you’d have to make a choice as to which direction your heart is heading. Clearly love is complicated, and I think alot ofpeople don’t really know the true meaning of love and maybe they never will. I feel that every good person in this world is deserving of love, however some people not only don’t know how to give love but they also don’t know how to allow themselves to be loved. Anyway, basically I’m rambling on about something I probably don’t even know anything about. I’ve been in some really messed up relationships in my life, and I don’t even think any of the boys, guys, men whatever you want to call them, that I’ve been with have ever loved me. /stupidity
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